Articles & Guided Exercises

Explore evidence-based tools, reflections, and mindset shifts from 4C. Each article offers a glimpse into the Learning Hub — where you can go deeper with discussions, community learning, and hands-on practice.

Finding Meaning and Purpose: Checking In With What Matters Most
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

Finding Meaning and Purpose: Checking In With What Matters Most

Sometimes life shifts — a loss, a new role, a health change, a move — and the things that once fueled us don’t fit in the same way. That doesn’t mean we’ve lost our purpose; it means it’s time to listen for what’s emerging now. In this article, we help you check-in, through a self-assessment, and give you tips to boost your sense of purpose.

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Why Emotional Tolerance—Not Clarity—Might Be the Key to Healing and Growth
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

Why Emotional Tolerance—Not Clarity—Might Be the Key to Healing and Growth

We’ve all been there: overwhelmed by an emotion we can’t quite name, let alone explain. Maybe it’s a heaviness in the chest, a knot in the stomach, or tears for no obvious reason. 

And in that moment, we often reach for understanding—Why am I feeling this? What does it mean? 

But here’s a radical truth:

You don’t have to understand a feeling to allow it.

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15 Quotes to Help You Cope with Anxiety and Stress
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

15 Quotes to Help You Cope with Anxiety and Stress

Anxiety and stress are part of life, but sometimes they can feel overwhelming. Whether you're facing a tough day, navigating uncertainty, or just need a moment of encouragement, the right words can offer comfort and clarity. Below are 15 powerful quotes to help you reframe your mindset, find inner strength, and remind yourself that you're not alone in this journey.

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The STOP Skill: A 60-Second Reset for Overwhelm
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

The STOP Skill: A 60-Second Reset for Overwhelm

The STOP skill from DBT gives you a practical way to regain control in moments of stress or anger. Learn how to interrupt emotional overwhelm, calm your nervous system, and act with intention using this simple, four-step sequence.

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Turn Worry Into Wisdom
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

Turn Worry Into Wisdom

We all worry—it’s part of being human. But here’s something you might not have realized: not all worry is the same. Some forms of worry can actually move you forward, while others quietly drain your energy and keep you stuck.

This article breaks down a simple way to tell the difference—so you can stop spinning in stress and start focusing on what really matters.

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🌱 The 90% Rule: A Simple Mindset Shift That Can Calm Big Emotions
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

🌱 The 90% Rule: A Simple Mindset Shift That Can Calm Big Emotions

When emotions hit hard, our minds crave certainty.
But sometimes, peace begins when you let go of being 100% sure.

If you can soften your certainty — even just 10% — your emotional intensity starts to drop too.

That small space between “absolutely true” and “maybe not entirely” is where curiosity lives.
And curiosity brings calm. 🌿

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Knowing Isn’t Always Enough: When Coping Feels Out of Reach...
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

Knowing Isn’t Always Enough: When Coping Feels Out of Reach...

Healing Doesn’t Happen in Isolation

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or just… tired — you’re not alone.

You don’t have to carry it all yourself.
Let someone hold the mirror. Let someone remind you. Let yourself be supported.

🧡 Listen to this story of hope from the 4C community — where healing is personal, but never solitary.

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The Magic of How Connection Heals
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

The Magic of How Connection Heals

In this article, we explore that thing that happens when people come together, open up, and realize they’re not alone.

What exactly makes group experiences so powerful? Let’s look at the research, and the themes in connection that lead to healing.

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How to Ask for the Support You Actually Need
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

How to Ask for the Support You Actually Need

Have you ever shared your feelings with someone, only to feel frustrated by their response? 

Just like we all have love languages—the ways we prefer to give and receive love—we also have support languages, or the ways we prefer to receive emotional and practical support. When these languages don’t match, miscommunication happens. Here, we teach you how to communicate, and get your needs met!

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AI Can’t Replace (and might harm) Human Connection and Empowerment
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

AI Can’t Replace (and might harm) Human Connection and Empowerment

Instead of leaning on AI as a crutch, we need to embrace systems that encourage individuals to take charge of their journey. A healthy community thrives on collaboration, where people come together to share resources, ideas, and experiences. Collaboration builds trust, purpose, and a sense of belonging—qualities that AI simply cannot replicate.

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20 Quotes to Help You Cope with Rejection and Live Authentically
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

20 Quotes to Help You Cope with Rejection and Live Authentically

Living authentically and embracing your true self can be a challenging journey, especially when faced with rejection or judgment from others. These experiences, though painful, often hold lessons that can strengthen your resilience and deepen your self-worth. Here are 20 powerful quotes to inspire you to embrace your value, navigate rejection, and live authentically.

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Accessing Mental Health Support Doesn’t Have to Be Hard
Lara Gregorio Lara Gregorio

Accessing Mental Health Support Doesn’t Have to Be Hard

Accessing mental health support can feel like climbing Mount Everest. You’ve probably heard the advice: “Just talk to someone!” Sounds simple, right? Except it’s not. Between figuring out where to start, finding someone you trust, and navigating the maze of insurance (ugh), getting help can feel like another full-time job.

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